Growing up behind a topless bar, a nude wrestling club, a massage parlor, an adult XXX theater/arcade, and a free clinic, as well as spending the last forty years of his life within or involved with various alternative lifestyle groups has given Raymond Fletcher a unique perspective on people, their sexual practices, and their perceived sexuality.
Raymond Fletcher says, "The problem with sex is that it's what most people want and know the least about."
In his book SEXUAL PREFERENCE/SEXUAL CHOICE-A Challenge To The "Born That Way" Theory (Republished as Hetero-Sexuality—An Attempt To Define Normal), Raymond Fletcher explains the differences between sexual preference and sexual orientation, sexual identity, and sexual choice.
When a person states that they are straight, gay, or bisexual, Raymond Fletcher's common response is, "Are you sure?"
Having been both a Bull and a cuckold, Raymond Fletcher writes from his experiences. His wife is also involved in the lifestyle and gives Raymond much to write about. Raymond and his wife have chosen to grow old together disgracefully and to do it well.
You can find Raymond Fletcher's books on Amazon.com
Raymond Fletcher's 2004 book, When Sex Isn't Just Sex-A Guide To Understanding Sexual Inhibitants, answers the questions Why do some women not want sex? And Why sex is so important to men.
When Sex Isn't Just Sex-A Guide To Understanding Sexual Inhibitants covers topics such as premature ejaculation, nudity, sexual guilt, loss of libido, cuckoldry, as well as communication and trust.
Raymond Fletcher's When Sex Isn't Just Sex-A Guide To Understanding Sexual Inhibitants focus is on the average couple in a committed relationship that just happens to involve what Raymond Fletcher calls Sexual Inhibitants.
The goal of this book is to allow people to see themselves throughout the book and to realize that they are not the only ones experiencing the problems they are having in their relationship.
(When Sex Isn't Just Sex-A Guide To Understanding Sexual Inhibitants is currently out of print and in the process of revision, to be re-released soon.)
Sexual Preference Sexual Choice: A Challenge To The "Born That Way" Theory
is now available in paperback and e-book on Amazon.com and Barnes & Nobel.com
When a person acts on their sexuality, sexual nature, or impulse, a person is usually considered straight, gay, or bisexual. What category do you fit in? Are you sure?
In his book SEXUAL PREFERENCE/SEXUAL CHOICE-A Challenge To The "Born That Way" Theory, Raymond Fletcher explains the differences between sexual preference and sexual orientation, sexual identity, and sexual choice. As the reader, you will get a different view of sexuality, and a better understanding of yourself and others.
This is not a book about homosexuality. SEXUAL PREFERENCE/SEXUAL CHOICE-A Challenge To The "Born That Way" Theory was written with the original questions, What makes a person Heterosexual? And why is it the "preferred" sexuality?
Raymond Fletcher's findings were that nothing much is a strictly heterosexual activity, and the only difference between homosexuals and heterosexuals is whom they choose to have sex with. And even then, it rarely had anything to do with a person's sexual identity.
SEXUAL PREFERENCE/SEXUAL CHOICE-A Challenge To The "Born That Way" is a book about taking personal responsibility for our actions, no matter what they are.
Raymond Fletcher believes that we become who we are by the choices we make throughout our lives. People may think they are straight, gay, or bisexual, but few can explain why they are.
We are born human beings, and who we become has much to do with what we experience, how we think, how we feel, and how we react. SEXUAL PREFERENCE/SEXUAL CHOICE-A Challenge To The "Born That Way" challenges us to examine who we are and why.
(Sexual Preference/Sexual Choice has been republished as Hetero - Sexuality)
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Do you want a better marriage, and a more exciting, satisfying sex life?
Unconditional love, trust, happiness, and better sex await you! Couples willing to push their boundaries and step out of their comfort zones can make their dreams and fantasies a reality. The Cuckold Bible explains how involving other men in your sex life can bring you closer to your partner and add more excitement to your bedroom fun.
Nowhere else will you find such concise information on how to love one another and get what you really want out of life, your marriage, and your sex life. The Cuckold Bible isn't for everyone. It's for people who want the best that life and love have to offer.
The Cuckold Bible teaches you how to love more fully and make your already solid loving relationship better by involving other men in your sex life and sexual activities. You'll learn to communicate better, have more to talk about, and have more fun together. You'll learn how to build trust and intimacy and what it feels like to be loved for who you are.
The Cuckold Bible is for couples who want more and teaches you how to get what you truly want out of your marriage and sex life.
Long before people knew there was a word for his lifestyle, Raymond Fletcher participated in what is now known as cuckolding. He has been a Bull and a cuckold for the last forty years, published over seventy books and writes from his own experiences.
Raymond Fletcher writes and speaks openly about his and his wife's lifestyle to help others overcome their inhibitions and fears associated with love and sex.
You deserve more love, better sex, and to enjoy life! The Cuckold Bible is the ultimate source for anyone who has ever dreamt or fantasized about what could be and wants it now. Make your life, marriage, and sex life what they can and should be today!
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On your Christian sexual journey, your husband may ask you to do something outside your comfort zone. You're uncomfortable even thinking about it. You look through the Bible, desperately searching for verses that show why the act is wrong, and you find nothing. As much as you want what your husband wants you to do to be prohibited, it doesn't seem to be. You don't understand why your husband is interested in it, and you don't see how it can improve your marriage.
You've decided to give your husband the gift of your submission, and maybe you feel a little hurt that your husband wants something that he should know is out of character and uncomfortable for you—but you know that he loves you, and you're glad that he feels safe enough to ask you to do it.
What do you do? What steps would you take to do this thing that your husband has requested? He wants you to have sex with other men, and you have a choice to make. You can tell your husband to fly a kite, or you can be the submissive wife he thought he married.
The Bible tells wives to submit to their husbands, but aren't there times when it's okay to go against your husband's wishes? The simple answer is no.
In the book How To Be A Submissive Christian Hotwife, you will learn what submission truly is and what the Bible says about it. You will also learn the different misconceptions related to Christian submission.
Your husband loves you, he wants only the best for you, and you can't be the wife your husband thought he married unless you know what it is he expects from you.
How To Be A Submissive Christian Hotwife explains the true meaning of submission, and once you know what submission is, you can put it into practice in your daily life.
When you take steps to become a submissive Christian Hotwife, you'll be happier, your husband will be more content, and your life will become more vibrant.
Aimee, 27, says, "Submission is not degrading. It's uplifting. Being a submissive Hotwife is a highly esteemed position for a wife to be in."
Dawn, 26, says, "I had no idea that I could be a Hotwife and still be in God's favor."
Melissa, 38, says, "When I learned to submit to my husband, my life changed for the better, and so did our marriage."
A Christian, submissive, Hotwife? It may not be what you want at first, but it is what your husband wants. He wants you to have sex with other men while he watches. Can that be what God wants you to do? Does God want you to have sex with men other than your husband? How To Be A Submissive Christian Hotwife answers those questions.
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CAN YOU FEEL THE HEAT? - Modern Stories about Self-Discovery, Passion, and Romance is a collection of stories inspired by actual life events. As the reader, you'll laugh, cheer, and possibly even shed a tear. Which story will be your favorite?
When Sex and Life Collide - Three couples learn about each other and themselves. One couple is dealing with a secret tragedy. Another is trying to overcome a sexual assault, and the third couple is learning to deal with Empty Nest Syndrome. They all learn something new and how to love each other more.
Like Father Like Son - A young man follows in his father's footsteps and learns a valuable lesson that changes his life.
Totaled - A car accident puts a couple in a precarious predicament.
The Town Bicycle - What happens when you fall in love with a woman everyone has had sex with? This is what happens.
Our Boyfriends - A couple goes out for a Valentine's Day show and dinner, meets a man, and their lives change forever.
A Woman With More To Offer - A man meets the woman of his dreams. Despite everyone's opposition, love wins out.
The Book Club - A happy wife living the dream finds what's been missing from her life.
The Helpful Neighbor -A husband discovers his wife and friends have been keeping a secret from him.
Naked And Unashamed - When you're taught not to think about sex, sometimes it's all you can think about.
The Importance Of Feeling Loved - A young woman discovers you can't put a price on love.
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So, you finally found a man willing to commit to you, put a ring on your finger, and marry you. Exchanging your vows, you claimed to love, honor, and cherish each other. You possibly said you'd forsake all others. And you're most likely now asking, "What the hell did I do?"
How To Destroy Your Marriage, Lose Your Man, and Finally Be Happy! is the book you've been looking for! Trust me, getting married wasn't the worst mistake of your life. You have options other than divorce. A marriage, just like your life, is what you make it.
How To Destroy Your Marriage, Lose Your Man, and Finally Be Happy! will give you new ideas and new ways of thinking. You'll learn about men, sex, love, and romance in ways you never have before.
Is your happiness important to you? If so, How To Destroy Your Marriage, Lose Your Man, and Finally Be Happy! is your guide to marital bliss.
If your marriage isn't all you expected, you can change that. There is no reason to settle or lower your standards or expectations of others. You can have your cake and eat it, too. You just have to know how to make that happen.
By reading How To Destroy Your Marriage, Lose Your Man, and Finally Be Happy!, you'll learn about and understand your options and how to get what you want. It's about damn time that Your happiness mattered!
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"I'm not normally like this," Joan said.
"Like what?"
"I don't have sex with just anyone. I'm not a slut."
"You say slut like it's a bad thing."
"It is," Joan said.
"Liking sex isn't a bad thing."
"But I'm a married woman."
"And a sexy one at that."
"Will you just hold me?"
Jack put his arms around Joan and kissed her neck.
"You don't know how badly I need this," Joan said.
"I like this."
Jack moved his hands to Joan's rump and squeezed.
Joan wrapped her arms around Jack's neck and deeply kissed him.
The electricity she felt throughout her body when she and Shaun made love, Joan felt again kissing Jack. .
Joan isn't happy in her marriage, and knows something has to change. Her best friend, Dianne, tells Joan about the marriage retreat she and her husband had attended, and how it changed their lives and marriage. Dianne and her husband, Jack, convince Joan that attending the marriage retreat is the best thing she can do for herself and her marriage. Joan's desire becomes a reality, just not the way she expects it to.
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Vanessa isn't happy, and something has to change. She knows what she wants and goes looking for it. With the help of friends, Vanessa learns some valuable lessons. She also learns that turnabout is Fair Play.
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At the end of a hectic day, we all need something that takes us somewhere else. Adult Bedtime Stories is a book filled with stories of Love, Romance, Fun, and Physical Intimacy. Whether sleeping alone or with a partner, you'll find these Adult Bedtime Stories a welcome addition.
Which will be your favorite story?
Cindy Gets To Know Her Neighbors: A young wife meets her neighbors and gets to know them better than she expects.
The Barbeque: Tom and Amy attend a barbeque at Tom's brother's house. They play poker with Tom's brother, Rick, and his friends. Amy gets tipsy and agrees to play strip poker. You can bet that the game changed everything.
Daddy Sleeps In Abigail's Bed: Abigail moves to the city to attend college, where she meets an older couple who can help her achieve her life goals. She rents a room from the couple and learns what they don't teach in school.
My Daughter's Boyfriend: Kayla returns from college with her new boyfriend. Her mother approves of her new boyfriend, and so does her aunt. Kayla's father isn't sure how he feels about his daughter's boyfriend, but his wife's sister helps him get through it all.
Butt Dialed: Gary butt dials his wife, Ellen, and she learns things about her husband she never knew.
Megan And The President: Megan and her boyfriend, Chad, meet The President in the unlikeliest place after leaving Chad's mother's house.
The Escort: While on a business trip, Bill Wallace meets a girl from his past. He learns that sometimes, you get more than you pay for.
Have Bed Will Travel: David and Lilly, a young couple, learn from an older, more experienced couple what it takes to live a happy life.
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When you go to bed, you don't always have to go to sleep, especially if someone is in bed with you. And only some people fall asleep as soon as they get in bed.
Maybe you need something to help you sleep or have better dreams. More Adult Bedtime Stories is just what you need.
Inside More Adult Bedtime Stories, you will find love and romance, some things that may surprise and titillate you. You may even see yourself in a story or two.
Which story will be your favorite?
Lunch On Saturday - A typical Saturday lunch turns into an atypical situation.
A Complete Marriage - Boy meets girl, boy marries girl, and the best man turns out to be the Best man
Judy Prefers Black - An older couple's swinger past is revived when the wife meets a younger man.
Hall Pass - A wife infatuated by a coworker offers her husband a hall pass. Her husband says he doesn't want one, then tells her not to hurry home.
Holiday Sex Fest - Not your typical Thanksgiving gathering.
My Wife's Panties - A couple gets into an argument, and the wife copes the best she can.
Sweet Revenge - This is what happens when a wife hooks up with her husband's High School bully.
My Grandfather - A young man learns that his Grandfather is more than just his Grandfather.
What The Pastor Said-Christian marital counseling gone wrong—or right, depending on your perception.
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What does it mean to be a man or a woman? Even a supreme court nominee can't provide a definition for the word woman. I never questioned what it meant to be a man or a woman for most of my life, then friends of ours decided to open their marriage. And that's when it all began for me.
I'd heard the term LGBTQ, but never thought much about it. I was a heterosexual man with a wife, and I was attracted to women. I never questioned my sexuality, but all that was about to change.
Sexuality, gender, orientation, all of that seemed fixed to me. You are attracted to women, or you like men, and I had no idea that could change with time or situations. In a very short amount of time, I learned more about myself and other people sexually than I ever thought I could or would.
At times, we all question ourselves, but nothing affects us more than our sexual desires. And when our sexual desires don't make sense to us, that can be concerning. What do you do when your sexual attraction and sexual desires contradict one another?
Depression is so prevalent in our culture, and more and more people are questioning who they are and where they fit in. Where do you fit in when you don't know who you are or what you want in your life? And what community is YOUR community?
As a man, masculinity was something I valued but couldn't define. I saw my best friend as a lesser man because he wanted something I couldn't comprehend. And then I found out it was me he wanted. I was attracted to his wife, not him, but we did things that made me question my values and morality.
The act of sex is supposed to be so natural, and for some people it is. Many of us, though, are faced with questions we can't answer about our sexuality or our sexual desires. This is my story.
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David and Samantha had a so-so marriage for thirty years until their friends Hank and Piper invited them to go on a vacation of a lifetime. David had been a dutiful and hardworking husband and father, and Samantha had been a loving wife and mother. Once in Negril, David and Samantha learn they don't know each other as well as they thought.
While on vacation, Samantha tests David's love, and he has a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to show her how much he loves her. On the brink of divorce, David and Samantha learn that love is more than something you say; it's something you do.
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